I am a lesbian and just started dating this woman 2 and a half month ago. She is showering me with all those words: I love you, I am thinking about you all the time, miss you..bla..bla. She gave me a pair of her house keys already last week. A lot of her friends are her ex girlfriends. There is one of them I don’t trust the one that hit on my girfriend long time ago. I still see that she has something for my present girlfriend even though they broke up long long time ago and become good friends since then. (8-10 years ago). Anyway, here is the picture. I see my girlfriend sometimes on Tuesdays and on the weekends. I work 5 minutes from her house. She starts sometimes @3:00PM or 5:00PM. There was only one time she initiated to see me for lunch. Last week she texted me saying how much she misses me. So I texted her back saying I can go see her for lunch. She said she is having lunch with the “girfriend” I don’t trust, but how about tomorrow. Than last night I texted her and find out today from her that she was having dinner with her. They of course keep contatct with eachother and the other girfriends often by having lunch, text, dinner, etc.. with or without me. There was another time when we had a date and we were supposed to meet first thing in the morning. So she called and said that she is having breakfast with one of the girfriend (not the one I hate) and basically she pushed me back to see me later. Also, she used to text me more and answer me back in a short period of time. Now she text me in the morning and I don’t hear from her until the next day and she text me back within 1-2 hrs. I am suprised if I get a text from her within an hr. When we are together everything is fine and she really seems to be a trustable girl but I don’t know her. Anyways, do I neet to worry about this other girl? Do you think she is playing headgames with me? Do you think she is into me as much as she is saying? I appreciate any input.
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